7 Crucial Signs That It's Lust Not Love
Is it love or is it lust? These signs show that it is only lust, so don't get too attached!
Could the relationship that you are in be love? Is it really only lust? Could your feelings be real for this person you are dealing with? Could they really be feeling things for you too, or are you just someone to be around? So many questions needing answers to know if this could be the relationship you have been waiting your whole life for, or if it is just a fling, a bump in the road of relationships to get you to your "one". The following signs we have listed are indicators that you are only in lust with someone, and it's not love.
1. Always Dressed To Impress.
If you or the person you are currently digging are always looking your best around each other, it might be just lust. If you spend a lot of time caring for yourself in ways that you usually wouldn't just to meet up with them, you might be building the start to a relationship that is based solely on superficial things. A real long-term partner wouldn't care about your messy hair day or the clothes you left on your bathroom floor, and they wouldn't try to hide the fact that they are imperfect to you either.
2. Lack Of Conversations.
When you are in a good relationship, a relationship that is going to last, you feel comfortable talking to your partner about your lives and getting to know each other on a more personal level. You talk about the good, and the bad in relationships; your likes and your dislikes, maybe even your future and goals. If there is a lack of conversations as such in your relationship, then it is probably just lust.